The first one, for a little girl, was commissioned through my madeit store. My brief was that her parents had called her their "little ladybug". I had a gorgeous little ladybug button from Purple Pumpkin that was pink and white and I wasn't comfortable using dark colours for a child so this is what I came up with.
See the little ladybug button?
The next one was for a great grandmother and I used the more traditional dark colours and a flourish from Flourish with a Bling.
I hope I might have helped you with ideas for sympathy cards, they're so hard to make.